You don't have to try. Most of us already are.

i think its truely ridiculous when people work so hard to convince people that they are "different". for several reasons:

1. in compostition we are ALL THE SAME:
we enjoy the company of people who value us.
most of us are looking for love in some form.
we are composed mostly of water and hydrocardons.

2. Actaully, when you want to be different, its because you want attention, orto separate yourself from the crowd. its because you want to be unique. not because you actaully are.

3. You make yourself look like an idiot. you wear styles that dont fit you because it makes you feel "edgy". you listen to crappy music cause no oneelse does. Theres usually a reason why something is unpopular, poor quality for example, but you ignore that for the sake of being different, when reallyyou're just the same as everyone else.

4. Finally, because every statistic happens on a bell curve, there are thosewho actually are different, in ways that aren't stylish right now. those peoplelaugh at the people who spend their time trying to be "unique" because theirdeepest, most painful desire is to be the same as everyone else.

I laugh at these people, yet feel so sorry for them as well. They live under their parents thumb. or some drive within them to do better. or feel they must earn something, when the best things in life are free. They fight to be different, i'm not sure why. I bet some psychologist could give me a good enough reason, but frankly i think i'd be easier to forget trying to be different, and just live your life with waht you have, find the differences that matter, and focus on healing those.